That I Don't Know Who Texts First

I remember dancing at a club when I met him. He was stood at the bar, holding his drinks, under the blue hue of the club's many strobe lights.

I thought "hey, he looks nice, I'll go and say hi".

So I did.

A little conversation was had with him during the course of the night, and eventually I got his number. (Ballsy!)

A few weeks later, after several conversations on whatsapp, we met. One could only hope that it wasn't "beer goggles" that got me his number. My girl friend said he looked cute, but then, she was high as well. His display photo looked...decent.

We met.

And I was quite smitten.

I have a thing for smokers who drink whisky. His mouth tasted utterly amazing.

I'm just wondering though, after the first date, who makes contact first, and after how long?

It's kinda nice to feel wanted though. 

That I Am Being Dated Remotely

Isn't the whole idea of dating someone to make them happy, and to be a duo that's supposed to go far together?

Evidently not. When they tell me that the reason for their absence and silence is that they are 'complicated' and that they 'have problems taking action', what does that even mean? 

I do not know how to date a person via WhatsApp.
My friends have decided that I am dating a phantom.

I agree with them.